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A short story a day…

New Year’s Resolutions have fallen out of fashion recently, with a spate of articles and statistics showing that these well-meaning promises we make ourselves every January can harm, rather than help, mental health. Like everyone else I’ve fallen into the trap of making long lists of NY resolutions, only to break them all within a couple of weeks. Doing this can make you feel pretty down on yourself, it’s true. Looking back on these failed resolutions, I see a pattern emerging. This year, I’ve tried to make my NY resolutions more achievable, positive and fun. I won’t share them all with you, but here’s my favourite one: I’ve decided to read a short story a day. How does this fit in with the criteria I’ve sent out above? In my younger days, I was an avid reader. Now, time to curl up with a book is scarce and I’ve realised it’s something I really miss. So, making this change is something I really want to to do. Deciding to read a short story a day seems manageable. If I’m having a particularly hectic day, I can always choose a particularly short one (many cracking short stories are only a couple of pages in length). This means it seems like an achievable target. Finally, this resolution comes from a place of self-care rather than shame. If I manage to read the short story, then great! I’ve introduced a little bit of luxury into my day, and done something just for me. And if I run out of time? No one dies. I can just try again tomorrow. 8 days into the challenge and I’m still going strong. So far, I’ve read stories by Shirley Jackson, Ali Smith, Philip K Dick, Fay Weldon and Road Dahl. The wonderful Shetland Library has an awesome array of short stories, so I won’t be running out of material any time soon. If you’d like an achievable, positive and motivating target for this year, why not consider doing something similar?

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Learning from Tromsø

The nights are fair draw’n in’. Winter is here already. Some may smile to themselves at the thought of cosy fireside nights and roast dinners. Others may feel less upbeat. In fact, if you are one of the estimated 1 in 3  people who suffer from seasonal affective disorder, it’s likely the season ahead will look anything but jolly. Goodbye sunlight. And hello depression, sluggishness, and apathy! Even if you are lucky enough not to experience SAD symptoms, it’s likely that you will work alongside people who do. Workplaces can become dreary places at this time of year – but is there anything that can be done about that? Perhaps there is.  The Tromsø Phenomenom I recently came across some research conducted in Norway, specifically in Tromsø, which is a city 200 miles north of the Arctic circle. Despite experiencing only 2 or 3 hours of indirect sunlight a day, a study conducted in 2012 showed that residents of Tromsø did not report any signs of emotional distress through wintertime. Health psychologist, Kari Lebowitz, was intrigued by this. And so she designed the wintertime mindset scale which asked participants to rate their agreement or disagreement with the following statements. And Winter is boring Winter is a limiting time of year There are many things to dislike about winter Guess which statements the residents of Tromsø were in agreement with? That’s right, they viewed winter in a positive way. Growing a Tromsø mindset But how can you implement this positive wintertime mindset in the workplace without coming over all Pollyanna? Or, even worse, seeming insensitive to the mental health issues others may be going through? Actually, when it comes to mindset, the worst thing you can do is to mention the ‘m’ word outright – it can annoy people, making them feel as if you’re telling them how and what to think. The best thing to do is to focus on your own mindset – positivity can be contagious! Begin by reframing the winter months in a positive way. What opportunities does winter offer you? These could either be opportunities for you or your business/organisation. You might see the long dark nights as a way of socialising more, or learning a new skill. Studies have shown that people who see learning opportunities and exciting challenges in stressful events tend to cope better than those who focus on their threatening aspects. And these differences in mindset don’t just stop at mood – they also influence a person’s physical wellbeing. How to embrace winter at work 1. Watch how you speak about winter. There’s a tendency to talk about ‘getting through winter’, ‘coping with winter’, ‘surviving winter’ as if it’s a terrible illness. Make subtle adjustments to how you think and speak about winter, and you may even infect people with your enthusiasm. Why not try ‘embracing winter’ instead? 2. We often associate winter with goodbyes – farewell to flowers, picnics and warmer days. Show that winter is a time to say ‘hello’ to lots of pleasant things. For example, get the canteen to serve spiced apple juice, organise a seasonal bake off competition (tis the season to eat cake!), 3. Finally, embrace opportunities to learn. Whether this be meditation, yoga or craft sessions, the mental health benefits of learning a new skill are well-documented. And if you’d like to embrace wellness writing at work this winter, let me know. You can find out more about my services here.

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5 ways to nurture your team

Take time to reflect on workplace practices that might be negatively impacting your team’s mental health. Is there an expectation for staff to be always ‘on’, for example? Do you walk the talk by setting yourself boundaries and enjoying a healthy work-life balance? Do you make sure people are supported when they take time off? Would someone feel comfortable about bringing up a mental health concern? All of these questions are fundamental issues where employee wellness is concerned – so consider them carefully. Get people moving Physical activity shouldn’t just be confined to before or after work – it should be incorporated into the working day. Have walking meetings, encourage stretches on a regular basis, organise a weekly steps competition – getting people moving will pay dividends, so make sure movement is woven into the fabric of your workplace. Consider the working environment Turning your workplace into a nurturing haven doesn’t need to cost a fortune. A few plants can make a big difference, for example. Consider lighting too, as this has a huge impact on wellness. Blue-enriched light bulbs have been proven to reduce fatigue and enhance work performance, so can be good for brain-storming environments. Warmer-tone bulbs are more calming and relaxing, so should be used in relaxing areas such as the staff canteen. As far as possible, allow staff to customise their working spaces, as they will know best what makes them feel happy and comfortable at work. Address external stressors When it comes to well-being at work, consider what areas of life may be causing your team stress. With a recent poll revealing that 1 in 10 adults feel ‘hopeless’ about their financial situation, it’s clear that money worries are a major factor in employees’ mental health. Consider providing financial education and debt counselling as part of your wellness programme. Take time out together Finally, think about activities where your team can come together outside of work. This could be as simple and spontaneous as a lunch time walk, or Friday evening drinks. Or you may wish to consider something a little different. If you want an activity that’s relaxing, fun and brings people together why not consider a wellness writing class? Contact me to find out more.

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